L.O.V.E...

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WHAT  IS LOVE? 

Before you start to ponder about your own definition this is what love is according to Google... (1) an intense feeling of deep affection/ noun: (2) a great interest and pleasure in something/ noun: (3) feel deep affection for (someone)/verb: (4) like or enjoy very much/verb

Now what's your definition of love and how do you express it? How do you know if its real? I was reading something the other day and came across this acronym...

L- isten

O- bserve

V- alue

E- mbrace

I know today is mostly centered around romantic love, or Eros, because its Valentine's Day but what about self love? Or more importantly Agape love ..love that is unconditional and in the highest form. In first Corinthians 13:13 the bible states "and now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love." 1 Corinthians 4-8: "Love is patient, love is kind, it DOES NOT boast, it is not proud. It does NOT dishonor others, it is NOT self-seeking, it is NOT easily angered , it keeps no records of wrong. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always preservers. How are you applying this to your loved one or significant other or even your kids? Do you listen to them to understand or do you just respond... are you observant of their wants and needs... do you value and make your loved one feel appreciated or do they feel useless around you? Embrace your loved ones, support them like no other person can, hug them, and show appreciation .. this week let's find out what your love language is .. there's 5 ...once you find that out let's put the effort behind it and see what comes of it.. choose LOVE... 

...And for my single folks .. this day is about love (even though it should be everyday) not about a relationship ... LOVE YOURSELF! like you never have.. treat yourself, spoil yourself, take care of your health, buy you something, floss your teeth, all that!!! lol Whatever makes you happy do it! SELF CARE is the BEST CARE ! I'm telling ya....


"CHANGE YA MIND, CHANGE YA LIFE!!"

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